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Be more conflict competent, whether to prevent or manage a conflict, or prepare for the next conflict, even though emotions run high and feelings are hurt.


Have you ever asked: “What could I have done differently?” Ask me questions about how to do conflict better: whether to prevent a conflict, manage your current conflict, or be prepared for the next conflict that will happen. I’ve worked for decades to help people develop their conflict competence.

Complete list of posts

Welcome to my posts about various aspects of conflict and the skills of being conflict competent. Navigate to topics of interest using this list of titles. The categories of post topics are on the sidebar to your right. Let me know if there’s a topic you’d like added. Or, use the contact page to ask The Conflict Doctor your question. Role of power in apologies                                                       … Read more Complete list of posts