Examples of good, bad and ugly conflict in popular culture.
Be more conflict competent, whether to prevent or manage a conflict, or prepare for the next conflict, even though emotions run high and feelings are hurt.
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Welcome to my posts about various aspects of conflict and the skills of being conflict competent. Navigate to topics of interest using this list of titles. The categories of post topics are on the sidebar to your right. Let me know if there’s a topic you’d like added. Or, use the contact page to ask The Conflict Doctor your question. Role of power in apologies … Read more Complete list of posts →
My top 10 – now 11 – list of lessons I learn from Trolls One week after I posted my 10 reasons to thank the Trolls, I read news of the #aftermetoo fund, which adds an… Read more 11th reason to thank the Trolls →
A woman I admire receives threats on her social media feeds. Her offence is that she’s dedicated the past three decades of her life to keeping the planet habitable for the… Read more 10 reasons to thank the Trolls →
A key message from Coaches is that we control only ourselves. Managing ourselves sounds easy and simple, and is hard and complicated. When someone’s in our face we get defensive.… Read more TV guide to conflict competence →
Enter 2018, fireworks on a revving motor Anyone else feeling inundated with endless stories of unsavoury behaviour? January enflames as if Santa delivered lumps of coal named rocket, collusion, accusation,… Read more Three hopeful truths for 2018 →
Wouldn’t you assume that using words was a skill transferable from one career to another? Yet, the switch from Conflict Management to writer of managing conflict changed my brain and words. After all,… Read more Updating a useful metaphor →
Question posed: is it seemly for a manager to apologize to someone he supervises? Although I was in the wrong, I’m concerned about losing face, or diminishing my authority in… Read more Role of power in apologies →